Happy 5th Birthday, Reichen!

November 17th, 2011

Today you are five and I can barely believe it

Where has the time gone – it just happened so quick.

 

So to celebrate, this weekend we had a really big party

We invited all your friends and you thought it was gnarly.

We met everyone at  Monkey Bizness, a really fun place

You jumped in all the bouncy houses with a smile on your face.

 

Liam, Hayden, and Dayton were all there

And Lexy, Abby, and Kendall with the golden hair.

 

Dylan, Lydia, and Noah came to your party too

And Caleb, and Claire said ‘Happy Birthday’ to you.

 

A Transformer theme you wanted with colors blue and red

“Optimus and Bumblebee would make me happy,” you said.

 transformer birthday cake

Nina made your cake and a small one for Latham, too

And you both blew out the candles – it was so exciting for you.

 

You opened all your presents and got lots of fun toys

Transformers, cars, and a rocket – all perfect for boys.

 opening presents

You had such a fun day and so did your dad and me

Happy Birthday Reichen, we are as proud as could be.

 

HAPPY 5TH BIRTHDAY, REICHEN!

Oh, Dana Kellin How You Dissapoint Me.

November 15th, 2011

The first pair of earrings David ever bought me was by designer Dana Kellin.  I discovered her collection of intricate, understated and ultra-feminine jewelry years and years ago at a boutique in  Portland, Oregon and immediately told David I needed a piece for my birthday.

And, as usual, he didn’t disappoint.

When I peeled away the packaging on that birthday present many years ago, I found the most beautiful pair of small, understated, wire-wrapped amethysts.  They were breathtakingly pretty and simple.  I wore them a million times then, and I wear them a million times now.

I love them.

Dana Kellin Designer Earrings

Since then, David has added a couple more of Dana Kellin’s creative, delicate, and antique-inspired pieces to my jewelry collection.  And I adore every piece.

So, imagine how super psyched I was when I was flipping through this month’s People StyleWatch magazine and saw an ad that stated Dana Kellin was designing a collection for everyone’s favorite big-box store, Target

I was super psyched, that is, until I touched it.

Dana Kellin for Target

The collection features necklaces and earrings ranging in price from $9.99 to $49.99 and seriously, I wouldn’t pay $.99 on clearance for it.  The pieces look and feel really cheap.  And the gorgeous wire wrapping Kellin is known for and adds to every piece of her high-end collection is no where to be found. 

I am so disappointed.  I appreciate that Target brings high-end designers and their collections to the masses so everyone can touch, feel, and own the pieces, but Dana Kellin’s collection in no way reflects her design taste, quality, or style.  And frankly, I’m surprised she allowed her name to be associated with with such cheap and uninspired jewelry.

The bottom line:  don’t buy it.  It’s cheap.  It’s plastic.  It’s boring.

Toddler Talk

November 15th, 2011

Reichen:  “My daddy is the one with bald hair.”

Who Wants a New Hat? I Do! I Do!

November 9th, 2011

Now that I’ve bought the boys these cutie patootie knit hats for the winter weather, I totally need one too.  Here are a few of my favs.  (But I’ve gotta admit:  I really, really, really want #7.)

Enjoy!

knit-caps

1.  Volcom Slouchy Beanie

2.  Roxy Hazard Beanie

3.  Fox Reggae Beats Beanie

4.  ANTHROPOLOGIE Slouchy Pointelle Beanie

5.  Stripes and Skulls Beanie

6.  Black Diamond Alex Beanie

7.  Burton Chloe Earflap Beanie

8.  ISOTONER Fairisle Knit Hat

New York City: Day 1

November 8th, 2011

My brother-in-law, Scott, lives in New York, so whenever he asks us to visit, he barely gets the words out of his mouth before David and I show up on his doorstep.  And last weekend was one such weekend.  So, after dropping the two boys off with grandma, we flew to New York for a whirlwind 72 hour adventure.

And boy, are our arms tired.  Ba-dah-dump!

In the past, we’ve taken bus tours, visited countless landmarks, and learned all about NYC architecture, but since my brother-in-law had to work Friday,  I told David we’re going shopping.  And we did. 

Day 1:  Soho. 

Enjoy!

 

David and I started our morning at Grey Dog in Soho and we couldn’t have stumbled upon a better place.  At Grey Dog, the prices are good, but the food is even better.  There, you’ll find a spread of breakfast and lunch standards with some original twists, like the challah French toast (which is what I ate).

Their baked goods and takeout options also looked really yummy for those on the go.  And the ambiance:  chill and modern.  Check out the caged pendant lighting they have hanging over the serving counter.  So cute, right?  And if you order lunch, according to the menu board, every sandwich comes with ‘a cute little salad.’

This place was so fun!

Our first shopping stop:  Lollipop.

Unlike some of its more off-the-wall neighbors, this Nolita boutique has struck a good balance between well-cut basics like raincoats and cotton tees and more unusual statement pieces like draped wool skirts and fun hats.

I didn’t buy anything here at Lollipop, but really, really, really wanted to.  Sigh.

 

Located on a charming, tree-lined block in the Manhattan neighborhood of NoLita, I bought the most beautiful beaded belt from Poppy.  The small clothing boutique is known for carrying a well edited mix of indy and established contemporary collections. 

While strolling the streets of Soho, I gasped when I randomly discovered the store Second Time Around, an upscale consignment shop which features ultra high end designers such as Gucci, Luboutin, Fendi, and Prada.  But the store, and the people who work there, are also stars of Bravo’s new reality show Fashion Hunters, which I LOVE.

The shop was so amazing and everything and more Bravo promised it would be.  And two of the show’s stars, Tara and Karina were actually working there.  The girls were so helpful and sweet, but alas, I didn’t buy a thing.  Most of the clothes I tried on were too big. 

I don’t remember where David and I stopped to get this gorgeous cup of cappuccino, but when I talked to the barista about the beautiful, elaborate design in the foam, he told me it wasn’t just about showing off, it’s actually about proving to the customer that the milk is properly steamed and will therefore hold its form.

Who knew!

 

Uniqlo has such an amazing store front and display that I had to pop in and see what it was all about.  And I was so not disappointed.

Specializing in well-made basics that rarely cost more than $100, this US flagship of the Japanese brand (which was founded in 1984) is sprawling, well-lit and immaculately organized. Leggings, sweaters, coats, tops, pants, vests, tights, skirts and T-shirts are everywhere you look, in bright colors and bold patterns. Look for inexpensive cashmere, signature fleece jackets and Uniqlo’s popular denim line, which has tourists and local hipsters lining up at the cash register.

I bought one Uniqlo’s light weight black puffy coats.  It’s form fitting, super cute, and really warm.  I love it!

 

From the outside, 459 Broome Street looks like any other chic SoHo shop. Inside, however, lies a wonderland. Purl SoHo is an upscale fabric, yarn, sewing, knitting and needlework supply oasis for creative individuals of all ages. Opened in 2002, Purl boasts floor to ceiling yarn and fabric choices. Walk in and you will understand the store’s mantra—“Create your world.”

Many crafts stories focus on one discipline—knitting, needlepoint, sewing, or quilting. Purl covers virtually everything. Want to knit a sweater? Baby blanket? Warm scarf for that special someone? Purl has a wide variety of yarns made of angora, mohair, cashmere and more, so you can be as imaginative as you like. If needlepoint is your thing, Purl can get you started on that project, whether a pillow, ottoman, tote bag, or stuffed animal. Embroidery aficionados will find inspiration and plenty of colorful threads for all those fancy stitches.

The store I could not miss while in NYC:  Jonathan Adler.  I am a super fan of his pottery, wallpapers, home decor, and furniture.  And I was not disappointed.  Adler’s space is bursting with everything from beds and sofas to chandeliers and thick wool geometric patterned rugs. The bright, energetic theme carries over to countless accessories such as needlepoint pillows reading “happy”; sunburst mirrors; sheet sets in graphic cocoa-colored prints; dinnerware in brilliant colors; assorted animal statuettes; and tongue-in-cheek cookie jars labeled “Downers,” “Quaaludes,” and “Prozac.”

I wanted everything, of course, but settled for a pair of pretty candle sticks and a little catch all bowl to set on my nightstand to put my rings and other jewelry in at night.

The best part of my Jonathan Adler experience:  Daniel, the store manager.  He told me all about Jonathan Adler including how the designer says goodbye whenever he speaks to someone on the phone.  Daniel told me Adler always says ‘Au revoir,’ (which means goodbye in french) and then an animal sound like ‘oink, moo, or quack.”

How quirky is that?

And all this was only day one!  Stay tuned for day two of David and my New York City adventure!

Toddler Talk

November 7th, 2011

Reichen:  “Mommy, are you and daddy getting married tonight?”

The question my 4-year-old asked when he saw how David and I dressed for a black tie event for a local children’s charity.

Oh, So Charming!!!

November 6th, 2011

Anthropologie is supplying shoppers with yet another covetable find with their newly-unveiled collection of charms and matching necklaces, designed in collaboration with  John Wind. In my opinion, the collab is a perfect partnership; Wind’s vintage-meets-modern design style is well-suited for the aesthetic of the giant retail chain.

You’ll spot Wind’s love of mixed media within the charm collection, which reflects the “Grandma’s jewelry box” theme of the designer’s own creations for fall 2011. The flea market-chic collab for Anthropologie includes twenty different “fascinators,” like fluffy feathers, natural stones, heart-shaped whistles, and wooden letters, most accented by brass hardware. My favorite part: prices are relatively low, ranging from $15 to $18 per piece.

Enjoy!

Thrifted Lemon Sofas are Rad. And so is my Dad. Hey, That Rymes!

November 3rd, 2011

I don’t go thrift shopping as much as I would like, but I do go about twice a year which, coincidentally, coincides with every time my dad comes to town. You see, my dad is a thrift store junkie. An addict. And he’s done it as long as I can remember.

Some of my first memories are of him holding my hand strolling the aisles of every consignment, thrift, and second hand store he could find in the phone book. I loved it. I was a little girl who adored her daddy and wanted to spend every single second with him, not to mention the promise of ice cream that waited for me after we discovered all our special treasures someone else didn’t want. Chocolate malt for him. Bubblegum on a sugar cone for me.

It was an adventure.

As I grew into all things teenager, I became incredibly impatient with the whole process. I didn’t hold his hand anymore and I would sigh and roll my eyes every time he picked up a brass candle stick or pair bookends to explain their art deco lines or the decade they were made. And we didn’t get ice cream anymore. I had places to go. I had friends to see. But we still went, at least once a month. And deep down, I guess I still wanted to go. It was our thing.

And it still is.

I only see my dad a few times a year these days. 1,200 miles and our busy lives separate us. But my dad came to visit for an entire week last week and the first thing out of his mouth after I picked him up from the airport: “Are we going thrift store shopping?”

So one day, while the boys were in preschool, my 70 year dad and I went to every consignment, thrift, and second hand store I could find in my iPhone. I was a girl again who adored her daddy who wanted to spend every single second with him. And we strolled the aisles hand in hand. And I listened happily while he explained the details behind the two paintings he purchased.

And then he bought ice cream. Chocolate malt for him. Bubblegum on a sugar cone for me.

 It was an adventure.

P. S.  And hey! If you ever want super cool stuff – go to the thrift store.  Look at what I found that I totally wish I could have tied to the top of my car and brought home.

thrift store shopping

thrift store shopping

thrift store shopping

thrift store shopping

Toddler Talk

November 1st, 2011

Reichen:  “Daddy?”

David:  “Yes, Reichen?”

Reichen:  “Why do you like to be bald?”

David:  “It’s not a choice, buddy,”

Reichen:  “Will I be bald when I’m a daddy?”

David:  “Probably.”

Happy Halloween!

October 31st, 2011

optimus prime bumblebee

I – I – I Worry

October 19th, 2011

My – My – My son stutters.

An – An – And it scares me.

He – He – He isn’t aware of it.

Y – Y – Yet.

Bu – Bu – But when he is.

I – I – I  worry.

Will – Will -  Will it change him.

Will - Will – Will he be afraid to talk.

Will - Will – Will  kids make fun of him.

I – I – I worry.

He - He -  He’s been stuttering about a year.

May – May – Maybe more.

Bu – Bu – But until now, they -

 The – The – The specialists, called it disfluency.

“He – He – He’ll grow out of it,” they said.

He – He - He hasn’t.

The – The – The specialists now call it -

St – St – Stuttering.

It – It – It always happens at the beginning of a sentence.

Never in the – the – the middle.

An – An – And – most times -

He – He – He can say his words.

Bu – Bu – Bu – But other times -

He – He – He – He – He – He – He – He – He – He . . .

{Can’t.}

I – I – I worry.

An – An – And I wish it were me who stuttered.

Not – Not – Not him.

Not – Not – Not him.

Not – Not – Not him.

Gwen Stefani’s Kiddie Collection

October 18th, 2011

Months after the announcement was first made, Gwen Stefani’s kids line finally has a lookbook! And surprise, surprise: the stuff is super cute.

Harajuku Mini for Target features all sorts of punky, plaid gear for toddlers through tweens. My favorite: the plaid skinny pants for boys.

The super-cool 80 piece kiddie collection hits Target November 13.

Target

Husbandism #41

October 16th, 2011

David:  “Because I didn’t know I was going to roll up on Jenny from the Block (Jennifer Lopez) when I walked into the closet.”

What my husband said when I asked why he tried to stifle a giggle when he saw me in this hat.

fall hat

My Mom is a Golden Granny!

October 10th, 2011

“I have something to tell you,” she said to me, my mom.  I gripped the phone a little tighter, squeezed my eyes shut, and braced for the bad news.  I mean, nothing good ever follows that sentence.

“I tried out to be a Golden Granny,” she giggled.

“You tried out to be a what,” I gasped.  I didn’t even realize I was holding my breath.

The Golden Grannies, she went on to explain, is a dance troupe for the Phoenix Suns.  And the only requirement to try out for the NBA organization:  you have to be a grandma.

“It was so fun,” my mom laughed.  ”But you know what,” she whispered as if someone might hear her even though she was in her car miles away from the other grovin’ grannies, “there wasn’t a lot of competion.”

There was no doubt in my mind my mom would make the squad.  She was born to boogie.  I have a million memories of her grabing my hands and swinging me around the livingroom when I was a little girl.  And to this very day, she still tries to tackle me to dance with her when ever she hears a beat.

“When will you know if you made it,” I ask.

She didn’t know, but as it turns out, it didn’t take long.  The next day she got an e-mail from the Golden Grannies inviting her to be a member of their team.

“I made it,” my mom squealed when she called to tell me the good news.

I knew she would.  I knew it.  And I’m so happy for her.  My mom gave her everything to raise me and my two brothers, which is what you do, of course, when your a mother.  But I’m so thrilled she is now searching out something special for herself. 

I can’t wait to see my mom out there on the court shaking it in front of thousands and thousands of Phoenix Suns fans.  But until then, I can see her on the internet.  A student for Arizona State University covered the auditions for a local cable channel. 

Check it out.  You can catch my mom around the :38 and :58 mark of the video.

Toddler Talk

October 8th, 2011

Me:  “Look at all the pretty trees, Latham, the leaves are changing.”

Latham:  “I know, they’re so beautiful.”

Me:  “How do you think the leaves change colors?”

Latham:  “I think fairies paint them while we’re sleeping.”

The conversation between me and my 3-year-old during our drive to preschool.